25 reasons Queer as Folk is essential LGBTQIA+ viewing today

Queer as Folk (2000-2005). Photo Credit: Showtime

Showing a parent who’s accepting no matter what

What makes Queer as Folk special, though, is one specific character who is a ray of sunshine (which just so happens to be her nickname for Justin) in the darkness of this hateful world: Debbie. Michael’s mother is as accepting as they come, sometimes even too accepting if you ask Michael. She knew her son was gay before he had even come to terms with it himself, and she loved him no matter what.

Debbie is what they call a PFLAG mom. For those who don’t know, PFLAG is an organization titled Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. She is a very vocal supporter of gay rights and also works as a waitress at the Liberty Diner, which is right in the heart of the gay village. She can always be seen wearing her a curly red wig, and plenty of gay-themed buttons on her work vest. She isn’t afraid to talk sex with the boys either, which Michael hates.

She was also integral in helping Justin’s mother accept her son’s sexuality, and got her to join PFLAG with her. The reason Debbie is so open-minded to begin with is because of her brother, Vic. Vic is homosexual, and also HIV-positive. The two were always very close, and she also nursed him back to health when his health took a turn.

Debbie really acts like the mother to all of the local gays, and that’s why she was such an important figure. Many people in the LGBTQIA+ community lose their families when they come out of the closet because of ignorance and close-mindedness, but knowing that there is someone who will be that accepting parent you never had is priceless.